How can couples reverse the buildup of resentment once they notice it?
13.06.2025 03:12
By internalizing that responding with kindness is strength, not weakness.
By giving up the notion that someone has to “win” or that anyone loses by saying “you are right”, “I am sorry”, or “I can do better.”
By resolving to listen with curiosity rather than defensiveness.
Why do some people have loving parents and some do not?
By wanting to truly understand each other, despite feeling unheard.
By deciding to stop with the criticism and the nagging and instead say thank you for everything you do for me. Thank you for loving me.
By keeping in mind it’s OK to have different opinions and different experiences, and they both matter in equal measure.
What was your most memorable combat mission during the Vietnam War?
By learning to validate what the other is feeling. “I can absolutely see why you feel this way.”
By taking turns talking.